How many times have you asked yourself if a woman, knowing you’re married, is attracted to you? It happens to all men. Some are outspoken about it while others prefer to keep it to themselves.
But the feeling of curiosity is the same. And whether you’re attracted to her or not, you still want to be certain what she feels about you.
So, we’re going to help you out by listing 30 clear signs a woman unintentionally gives out when she has feelings to a married man.
30 Clear signs a woman is attracted to a married man
What we’re going to list and explain are not merely signs, they’re sure-shots and unquestionable signs that tells you almost instantly if a woman, either single or married, is attracted to a married man.
1. Eye contact
This is the most obvious sign. A woman who stares at you feels attraction, even when she takes away her gaze out of shame when you glance at her from time to time.
2. Smile at you constantly
When she smiles or laugh each time you tell a joke or tell a funny story indicates that there’s attraction behind her smile.
3. Encourage proximity
She will create opportunities in order to get close to you. Sometimes, it will be obvious when she forces it. She could even use the help of a friend to set up the situation.
4. Physical contact
Pay attention to subtle touching on the arm, back or shoulder. They may look involuntary, but it’s an impulse driven by her desire.
5. Curiosity about your life
She will ask personal questions. And as the conversation deepens, she will bring up topics about your life, including details to know more about you.
She won’t miss any opportunity to compliment you. That could be your looks, qualities, intelligence, and charm.
7. Innitiate and extend conversations
Pay close attention if she always initiates the conversation and brings up several topics with the sole intention to prolong it. This is clear indication that she wants to spend a great deal of time by your side.
8. Details from previous encounters
You’ll be surprised to see that she will remember tiny details from previous conversations. She will even bring up the most trivial details. That means that every talk you have with her leaves a impact.
She could start teasing or bantering when you least expect it. That’s her emotions leaking. She will have a hard time to manage them.
10. Reach out through different means
Besides texting and calling, you could find her sending messages to your social media profiles. She could DM you with friend requests in new platforms you join in.
11. Listen carefully
Pay attention to her body language when you are talking to her. While she carefully listens to you, she will node, maintain eye contact, and respond nicely to your statements.
12. Shared hobbies and interests
Notice if she tries to find something in common with you such as hobbies or activities. She will focus on them to create a certain kind of bond with you.
13. Social events
Seeking opportunities to encounter you in social events is a clear indication that she wants to spend time with you. The activities are her excuse!
She will mask it as much as she can. But she will start flirting with you through some gestures like winking. She will probably tell jokes or drop suggestive comments.
15. Improving appearance
Notice if she makes changes to look more attractive than the previous time she was with you.
16. Nervous and anxious
Look for some gestures such as: fidgeting, blushing, or avoiding eye contact. These are shy gestures. If she’s somehow nervous when you’re around, she likes you.
17. Feeling jealous
She may become upset when she sees you approaching and talking to other women. This sign is sometimes obvious because that burst of emotion is uncontrollable when it comes out at that precise moment.
18. Trust you with personal information
She could open up and talk to you about her private life. Her intention is that you know her deeply so that you can find something that attracts you to her.
19. Find you charming
While you don’t have Elvis’s charms, she will laugh a lot at your jokes and be impressed by your stories. You are ‘her Elvis’.
20. Copy some of your body movements
There are women who go to the extreme you notice them that they will mimic some of your gestures. Her goal is to create chemistry by finding something in common.
21. Ask for your guidance
She wants to let you know that she appreciates your advice. And it’s also a good opportunity to be around you.
22. Request more of your time
She could make some things up to drag you where she is. The primary reason is to spend more time together.
23. Inviting gestures
Check out her body language. Look for specific details such as uncrossed arms, facing towards you, and leaning in during conversations.
24. Inquiring about your marriage’s life
She inquires about your private affairs with your spouse, showing unusual interest.
25. Help and support
She lets you know that you can reach out to her whenever you have a problem no matter the nature.
26. More advances every day
She progressively starts getting closer, taking more risks each time. She could hold your hands if you’re feeling down or hug you when she encounters you.
27. Tease you
She teases you about your marital status, making you feel that you’re missing something else.
28. Engage with you through social media
Don’t be surprise when she leaves spicy comment in you social publications.
29. Change her schedule
She reschedules most part of his day to day to make herself available to you. She will prioritize your time over hers.
30. Be the first to offer help
Any time you have a problem, she will come rushing to offer you support.
Why is it important to know all these signs?
There are several reasons why it’s important to spot the signs and act responsibily.
Some of them are:
- Recognize: be aware of these signs can help you understand better the intentions of people around you.
- Good communication: they facilitate open and clear communication once the intention is spotted.
- Set boundaries: once you know she’s attracted to you, you can establish boundaries to maintain respect.
- Internal growth: you learn a lot about your maturity by exploring your own desires and emotions.
- Relationship health: it tests your relationship with your wife to see how strong the bond is.
- Moral test: it also tests your values and how faithful you are.
By knowing these signs, act with ethic and respect. Think for a moment about the other person. Consider that you are the source of the attraction.
What to do after confirming she’s attracted to you
knowing how to proceed is crucial. You have this woman who has a clear interest. Probably her heart is developing romantic feelings (don’t leave that out). So, you have to move carefully.
To help you out, consider these useful steps:
Reflect about your life
Think about your morals and how much you value your marital relationship. You should think about your wife and the future. Always keep in mind about the consequences of an extramarital relationship.
Observe and evaluate
Assess the situation and all the individuals involved. That includes you, the woman who is attracted to you, and your spouse who trust you.
Whatever you decide, you have to state clearly the boundaries and the nature of the interactions between you and the other person.
Consider seeking help
If you think this situation is too hard to manage it yourself, look for guidance through counseling or talk to a real friend that has your best interest at heart.
Make informed decisions
Don’t make any reckless move. Either you respond to her advances or stay faithful to your spouse, keep in mind the possible consequences of your actions.
To have some insights about making good decisions, take a look at the educational video below:
A woman can’t help feeling attraction towards a man no matter his marital status. It just happens. And from there, a lot of questions and doubts normally arise. So, below we’re going to answer some of the common ones.
Are these signs a sure thing to assess a woman’s interest?
These signs are based on several interactions among people, specially those who are attracted to a married man. When you notice those signs, you will know that she’s interested.
Will I have problems in marriage if another woman is attracted to me?
No if you’re faithful. Your wife cannot blame you if another woman likes you. Another thing is that you correspond to her advances. That’s a totally different story!
What kind of women attract married men?
Single young women are the favorites. Their youth, vitality and charm not only seduce married men, they also make them remember a time when they were single.
What makes a married man flirt?
Actually flirting varies from person to person. When a married man starts flirting, there are some factors involved which include: lack of fulfillment, emotional or physical disconnect, attention-seeking, boosting self-esteem, lack of boundaries, and so on.
Will I wrongly interpret the signs?
The signs are clear when a woman is attracted to a married man. There could be confusion, but when it happens, it’s on the side of the receptor who mistakes the signals and comes to a wrong conclusion.
Knowing if a woman is attracted to a married man is useful not because you plan to correspond to her advances, but because you will know how to react when you are with her.
You probably don’t want to harm her feelings by reacting and responding in a rude way. That’s why it’s important to know the signs and confirm her interest.
After confirming, be sure to:
- Reflect about your life.
- Observe and evaluate.
- Communicate frankly.
- Consider seeking help.
- Make informed decisions.
Bookmark this page to review the signs and related information when you need it. Meeting someone who is attracted to you and doesn’t care about your marital status is common. What is important is to know how respond to this situation.